Sex is nice but intimacy is the real pleasure, the gentle caress of a hand sending chills down the spine, the warmth of two bodies together, a shared moment of pleasure and afterwards the slowing of two hearts beating together bathed in the warm afterglow in each others arms. I try to be a good person, a gentleman as well as a gentle man. I try to stay active, cycling and walking, to keep my mind engaged and working. A voracious reader on various topics.

My Ideal Person Looking for someone to go see music or plays together, to go cycling or walking, to sit for a quiet moment, a shared meal and drinks by the river as the sun sets and close intimate moments together. Formal education doesn’t matter if you have an enquiring mind, if you end the day knowing more then you did entering it and delighted in your new knowledge.
Whether it's a single stolen moment of pleasure, never to see each other again or something that becomes steady and comfortable doesn't matter.
To give pleasure to your partner as they desire it, to not feel forced to try something that doesn't feel comfortable, to know that there is no judgment on how you find pleasure. Everyone has there own way of finding the pleasure they're seeking, and if I can help you find that pleasure , that will give me pleasure too.